Certified member without examination?
The administrators are often asked to award the badge "Certified Member" without an examination.
Reasons why we should do this are often given:
We meet a lot of people at parties. We also get to know them. The badge "Verified Member" says that we have also met you together at home and talked to you both. How often do a man and a woman meet in front of or in the club although they don't really belong together? For these reasons, the test is only carried out on the landline telephone.
Even if other couples confirm that you are absolutely genuine, there will be a grey area here. With our badge "Verified Member" there shall be no grey area!
Even if you are a "Verified Member" in other portals. Friends69 has nothing to do with these portals and cannot check this.
Friends69 is a portal for active swingers and people who are close to our lifestyle (newcomers). Whoever wants to participate in our portal will have to take the test. Who wants to hide in the anonymity of the internet is unfortunately wrong with us. There are many other portals here.
Just out of solidarity with those who really want to be tested by us, we will not do something like that. What applies to everyone also applies to the individual. There will be no exceptions! Even couples, women and men whom we have known personally for years will get our call. Because we guarantee that we have met the tested ones together on the phone.
All pictures you post in the Friends69 Swinger Network are checked by the administrators or moderators before they are published. If a picture is rejected, it is not a bad intention on our part.
If you enter a new e-mail address, a mail with a confirmation code will be sent to you (to the new address). You can then enter the code on the same page (Settings > "Edit profile") or simply click on the link in the mail.
FOR THE GENTLEMEN !!!
Friends69 members (couples and women) are mostly active swingers. Active in the sense that you see them in the swingers clubs. They know each other and talk about the guys who write to them.
If you send a prefabricated text to all the women and try to fish that way, you'll be caught quickly. Because as I said, the active members know each other! Our system automatically blocks people who overdo it.
The idea of producing a nice text and sending it to everyone is as old as the internet. It's unimaginative and these gentlemen are just lazy. Think about it for a moment, with texts like this you don't respond to the person you are writing to with a single word. "You have a great profile" ... great! such mails are simply deleted.
You get to know a club partner in a club (this is especially true for newcomers) and you have to show up there first! With friendliness and charm you will reach your goal. Only when people know you personally, your profile is filled with guestbook entries and other members thank you for a great evening, will you be able to find pleasant real meetings in portals like Friends69.
On the Internet it has always been the case that there are more searching men than women and couples. If you want to be successful, stand out from the crowd. You certainly won't do that by sinking behind your PC.
Make your profile look good. A picture with a friendly smile and sexy, frivolous clothes will go a long way. Gentlemen who take pictures of their best bits and immortalise them in their profiles are usually smiled at. Because everyone knows what a man looks like down below.
Don't just look at pictures, read the profile. You don't write to a woman who is looking for a couple and try to persuade her to visit a club.
Then all you have to do is log in and look at your inbox (messages). Click on the subject to read the mail. Clicking on the sender's name will take you to the sender's profile. If you want to write back, click on "Reply". Compose your reply and send it. Your message will go directly to the inbox of the member you are replying to, and we will send an email to that member's personal email address.
All communications with other members remain on the portal, so you never have to give out personal and private information. You decide when you want to give out personal information, such as phone number, etc. to another member. We expressly warn you not to reply to e-mails that ask you to contact us immediately.
If you are verbally attacked or insulted, report this immediately to an admin. (Dekus). At Friends69 we do not tolerate such behaviour.
Winks can be sent from anyone to anyone. Even if a member is prevented from writing to you by the mail filter. This way you can at least draw attention to yourself. You can view the winks, react to them or ignore them.
Other members are added to the ban list if they harass you. Anyone on the ban list can no longer write to you.
All these lists have another function in connection with the mail filter.
You have the possibility to set a filter. For example, only women and couples can write to you: Only women and couples can write to you or only people from a radius of, for example, 100 km around you can write to you.
If you write to someone who would normally not be able to reply due to your filter, they will automatically be put on your friends list.
All those who are on your friends or hotlist can write you mails. Even if your filter prevents them from doing so. Of course, you can always kick them off the lists.
Your user account remains the same when you cancel a subscription. The time you have paid for will also be kept. If you want to cancel your account completely, you will find the item "Cancel membership" at the very bottom under "Your settings" after logging in.
If you have booked a subscription, please make sure that it has also been cancelled with NetDebit if you want to end your membership completely.
In this sense, have fun in the Friends69 Swinger Network.
The administrators are often asked to award the badge "Certified Member" without an examination.
Reasons why we should do this are often given:
- That you have already met at a party
- That another couple, who has been real checked, can stand in as a guarantor.
- That you have already been checked in other forums and portals.
- We don't see the point of paying anything again.
We meet a lot of people at parties. We also get to know them. The badge "Verified Member" says that we have also met you together at home and talked to you both. How often do a man and a woman meet in front of or in the club although they don't really belong together? For these reasons, the test is only carried out on the landline telephone.
Even if other couples confirm that you are absolutely genuine, there will be a grey area here. With our badge "Verified Member" there shall be no grey area!
Even if you are a "Verified Member" in other portals. Friends69 has nothing to do with these portals and cannot check this.
Friends69 is a portal for active swingers and people who are close to our lifestyle (newcomers). Whoever wants to participate in our portal will have to take the test. Who wants to hide in the anonymity of the internet is unfortunately wrong with us. There are many other portals here.
Just out of solidarity with those who really want to be tested by us, we will not do something like that. What applies to everyone also applies to the individual. There will be no exceptions! Even couples, women and men whom we have known personally for years will get our call. Because we guarantee that we have met the tested ones together on the phone.
Why was my picture rejected?
All pictures you post in the Friends69 Swinger Network are checked by the administrators or moderators before they are published. If a picture is rejected, it is not a bad intention on our part.
- No URL (web address) or e-mail address may be visible on the pictures.
- Pictures with animals are not allowed.
- As e.g. a solo man a picture with a woman (face pictures) or even group pictures are rejected.
- Family pictures with minors will be rejected.
Why was my picture classified as FSK18?
The german Law.... The belief that only the depiction of sex or the nude leads to an FSK18 rating is wrong. In some images these are covered up and yet you are still classed as FSK18. We do this because there have been some rulings on this. "A woman touching her breast implies a sexual act and is therefore to be classified as FSK18". We are not responsible for such case law. We just have to abide by it. Since in case of doubt the classification is at the discretion of the judge, we play it safe!How do I change my e-mail address:
You can change your e-mail address after logging in under Settings > "Edit profile".If you enter a new e-mail address, a mail with a confirmation code will be sent to you (to the new address). You can then enter the code on the same page (Settings > "Edit profile") or simply click on the link in the mail.
How do I change my password?
you can change your password under Settings > Change Password. first enter your old password, then enter the new one twice. After changing your password, please log out of the website and log in again!How do I meet someone here?
You create your own profile. You should also spice up your profile with photos to give your profile the final touch. As a rule, profiles with photos are much more appealing than just written words. However, writing something about yourself is not to be neglected. Pictures often say more than words, but people should also get to know you a little. Especially as a solo man it is usually more difficult. Don't lose heart, because friendliness and patience will bring you closer to your goal. It is especially helpful to already know many active people personally and, for example, to have many positive entries from other members in the guestbook. You should make an effort with the pictures. The representation of the sex is in no case a guarantee for success. Of course we all know what that looks like.FOR THE GENTLEMEN !!!
Friends69 members (couples and women) are mostly active swingers. Active in the sense that you see them in the swingers clubs. They know each other and talk about the guys who write to them.
If you send a prefabricated text to all the women and try to fish that way, you'll be caught quickly. Because as I said, the active members know each other! Our system automatically blocks people who overdo it.
The idea of producing a nice text and sending it to everyone is as old as the internet. It's unimaginative and these gentlemen are just lazy. Think about it for a moment, with texts like this you don't respond to the person you are writing to with a single word. "You have a great profile" ... great! such mails are simply deleted.
You get to know a club partner in a club (this is especially true for newcomers) and you have to show up there first! With friendliness and charm you will reach your goal. Only when people know you personally, your profile is filled with guestbook entries and other members thank you for a great evening, will you be able to find pleasant real meetings in portals like Friends69.
On the Internet it has always been the case that there are more searching men than women and couples. If you want to be successful, stand out from the crowd. You certainly won't do that by sinking behind your PC.
Make your profile look good. A picture with a friendly smile and sexy, frivolous clothes will go a long way. Gentlemen who take pictures of their best bits and immortalise them in their profiles are usually smiled at. Because everyone knows what a man looks like down below.
Don't just look at pictures, read the profile. You don't write to a woman who is looking for a couple and try to persuade her to visit a club.
If someone sends me a message via PM (Private Message), how do I reply?
When a member sends you an email, it goes to your inbox here on the portal. We will then send an email to your personal (private) email address to let you know that you have been contacted.Then all you have to do is log in and look at your inbox (messages). Click on the subject to read the mail. Clicking on the sender's name will take you to the sender's profile. If you want to write back, click on "Reply". Compose your reply and send it. Your message will go directly to the inbox of the member you are replying to, and we will send an email to that member's personal email address.
All communications with other members remain on the portal, so you never have to give out personal and private information. You decide when you want to give out personal information, such as phone number, etc. to another member. We expressly warn you not to reply to e-mails that ask you to contact us immediately.
I am being harassed. What can I do?
We offer you 2 effective ways to prevent harassment. Firstly, you will find the mail filter under settings. Here you can determine who is allowed to write to you. Men, women, couples and restrictions for age, distance and postcode. Secondly, you have a "ban list". If you are being harassed by a member who gets through your mail filter, put him or her on this list. You can do this via the member's profile.If you are verbally attacked or insulted, report this immediately to an admin. (Dekus). At Friends69 we do not tolerate such behaviour.
I have friends who can't get through my mail filter. what can I do?
You have set your mail filter so that, for example, men cannot write to you. However, you would like to contact men yourself. If you write to someone who is actually blocked by your filter settings, this person is automatically put on your friends list. Now this member can write to you. Everyone on your friend or hot list can write to you. You can also delete them there, of course.I have received a hint... what is it?
A hint is something like a wink. If you don't want to talk to someone right away, but just want to flirt, you can send a wink.Winks can be sent from anyone to anyone. Even if a member is prevented from writing to you by the mail filter. This way you can at least draw attention to yourself. You can view the winks, react to them or ignore them.
What is the friends list, hot list and ban list?
The friend list and hot list are, as you can see from the name, 2 lists that each member can maintain for themselves. One list is for friends, the other is for those you find "hot" or want to keep an eye on.Other members are added to the ban list if they harass you. Anyone on the ban list can no longer write to you.
All these lists have another function in connection with the mail filter.
You have the possibility to set a filter. For example, only women and couples can write to you: Only women and couples can write to you or only people from a radius of, for example, 100 km around you can write to you.
If you write to someone who would normally not be able to reply due to your filter, they will automatically be put on your friends list.
All those who are on your friends or hotlist can write you mails. Even if your filter prevents them from doing so. Of course, you can always kick them off the lists.
I would like to cancel my membership. How do I do that?
You can cancel a membership or a subscription at any time.- If you are a Premium Member and you have created a subscription through our partner NetDebit, you can cancel it at any time through NetDebit. At NetDebit you have a customer account after booking/payment. Here you can see current subscriptions, payments and accesses. Here you can cancel this subscription at any time. If you have forgotten your access data to NetDebit, you can use the password function at NetDebit or contact the support.
- If you are a premium member and have booked and paid a one-time payment (not a subscription), this does not need to be explicitly cancelled. It expires on its own and there are no further costs.
Your user account remains the same when you cancel a subscription. The time you have paid for will also be kept. If you want to cancel your account completely, you will find the item "Cancel membership" at the very bottom under "Your settings" after logging in.
If you have booked a subscription, please make sure that it has also been cancelled with NetDebit if you want to end your membership completely.
In this sense, have fun in the Friends69 Swinger Network.
